Adventures of the Johnson Five

A New School, A New Year of Learning

2010-08-31T15:47:00.000-07:00

Hunter and Courtney started the 4th and 2nd grades last Wednesday, August 25th. They seem to love their new school and teachers and we all enjoy the walk to and from school each morning and afternoon. (We are looking forward to cooler temperatures for the walk, however!) Sweet baby Gray is bored out of his mind and ready for his school to start. On Thursday, we get to meet his new teachers and then he will begin next Tuesday, after Labor Day.
Chad continues to work hard and enjoys operating at Duke. We are adjusting to his new role as a fellow and are surprised that 2 months of training have already passed! I am enjoying taking care of our new house although there is a lot more to clean and a lot to balance with Chad's long hours and the kids' busy schedules. I would not trade what I get to do, though. We've enjoyed visits from both sets of grandparents this summer and look forward to the next time they come. We have felt the loss of not having my little brother and parents right around the corner, so any time we can see our family is a blessing!

One look says it all..

2010-07-20T11:36:00.000-07:00

So this year has not been easy. If you have been reading this blog for any period of time, you are probably familiar with the many changes that have taken place in our lives. Graduation from residency, active duty change of station for Chad (which meant a family separation), deployment to the Middle East, selling our family home of 9 years, and moving to a new state for Chad's fellowship at Duke. This year is just one of many that have we have survived by God's grace on this journey of Chad's training to become a cardiothoracic surgeon. I have often joked with Chad and asked him, "Are you sure you don't want to be a professor at a university with a 'normal' schedule?!?" or "Are you sure you want to be a surgeon?!?" If you know me, you know my heart is for my husband to use his God-given gifts and fulfill the purpose He has for Chad's life. But, my selfish side does wish some times that this road was not what it has been or that it was easier. I have recently been challenged to embrace the fact that we are not called to live a life of ease or comfort; there are sacrifices to be made in order to honor the Lord and follow His plan for our lives. For us, that means many nights without Chad, family separations for military duty, and saying goodbye to family and friends as we move to different locations for Chad's training and Navy commitments. Some days, I have asked myself if it is really worth it...While I know I will always struggle with what this calling requires of Chad and by default, our family, I was privileged recently to see the look on my sweet husband's face when he came home from work and shared his excitement about getting to "finally operate on the heart"! There is nothing like getting to see a dream fulfilled for the person you love most in the world. It makes the moves, the late nights, the last minute change of plans, etc., etc., etc. worth it all! This past year is just one small piece of the puzzle that God continues to put together for our family. I am so thankful I know He has a plan for us and our best interest at heart. I hope you enjoy the pictures of Chad with the kids...he is definitely a "hot" commodity in this house!

Adjusting to Civilian Life...

2010-07-02T12:27:00.000-07:00

We are still hanging in there, adjusting to having Chad home, a new house, new city, new church, and new job. Chad began his fellowship at Duke with orientation yesterday. Although he is still on active duty with the Navy, he is enjoying being off the ship and having the freedom to walk outdoors, visit stores and restaurants as he chooses and of course, spend time with us. I thought the deployment was hard, but truly, adjusting to life as a "complete" family living under one roof has not been any easier! Plus, his first weekend back in surgery and he is on call...on the 4th of July, no less! We knew there would be adjustments to all the changes, but really had no idea how quickly life would unfold around us. From car problems to stolen wallets and paperwork delays with his medical license, life truly has been a struggle the last three weeks. The only thought that keeps me going is knowing that while many things that have happened caught me by surprise and "threw me for a loop", nothing happened that caught God by surprise and nothing throws HIS plans into a tailspin! I am thankful that in my non-emotional moments, I remember this. :-)
I hope that as our family comes to your mind, you will remember us in your prayers. The next three years will be a busy, intense time for Chad as he completes his training and fulfills his dreams of being a CT surgeon. I am proud of him and excited for the opportunities that are ahead of us. (I do hope, though, that those plans do not include another deployment or out-of-state move...hey, a girl can dream, right?!?!)

A hero returns...

2010-06-11T06:33:00.000-07:00

Today is the day we have been waiting for...Chad is coming home! Although our plans have changed and he will not be here in NC when we thought, we have adapted and if everything goes smoothly, we will see him this evening in Virginia! I guess it is a good thing I have learned to "go with the flow"!
I know my posts have been lacking, but moving with three kids has taken all of my energy and time, but with great results. Every box is unpacked and things are put away except for the few boxes that have Chad's medical books, supplies, etc. in them that I need his help with. We have furniture in most of the bedrooms with more deliveries to be made next week. Things are really coming together and the house is beautiful...I am so thankful for it. We are really excited for Chad to finally see it.
This has been a long, hard year, and one that I do not wish to live again any time soon. I would have never made it without the "behind the scenes" help I received from some very special people. I cannot go another day without mentioning the people who held me up, supported me, and encouraged me along the way. While there are many people I could mention, there are a few people who were there at every turn for me, on a weekly and daily basis.
First, our good friends from church, Tim and Liz Myers, and their three precious kids: Carter, Emma, and Ben. The Myers helped get the kids to and from AWANAS each week, so I could have an evening break once a week. There were so many weeks when sweet Liz would have six kids in the van, with a smile on her face, waving good bye, so I could enjoy some quiet time. I am so thankful to the Myers for all the meals, phone calls, encouragement, and support during this year. Most of all, the sweet friendship we developed. And, I can't forget to mention Tim's help loading our moving truck a few weeks ago with my dad...He had worked an evening shift in the ER and had to work again the night he helped us, but he showed up and made things go very quickly. I know my sweet daddy was as relieved he showed up as I was!
And then there are my parents...there really are no words to thank them for everything they have been to me and the kids this year. People talk about military families, the men, women, and children directly involved with a service man or woman, but there are so many more "unsung heroes" who never get mention for all they do. I wish I had kept a list of all the trials my parents faced with me, but I will always remember, in my heart, their countless sacrifices, hours of support, love, and hard work for our family. They helped drive me back from Virginia when my heart was completely broken in January and helped me pack and move TWO times. There was never a hesitation or "no", but always a "yes, what can we do?" Mom and dad, thank you for everything...I love you and as the kids would say, "you're the best!"

Wrapping our Nashville things up...

2010-05-23T17:21:00.000-07:00

This past week has brought many things to a close for us here in Nashville. Dance is over for Courtney, AWANAS is over at church, Hunter finished jujitsu at his gym of 4.5 years, and today was our last Sunday at our church. There are lots of changes taking place and new beginnings are just around the corner!
Leaving our friends at Nashville MMA was actually one of the hardest things for me and Hunter. That gym has been a part of our family's weekly life for years now and Hunter learned some very important lessons there (me too!). We made friends we would have never made and we discovered the value of marital arts, which Hunter now loves! He does plan to continue his training in North Carolina and much to our surprise, a new gym has opened near our home (about 7 minutes away!) that has been highly recommended by our current Senseis. We are very excited about this opportunity for Hunter. (These pictures are from Hunter's last night. We will never forget Sensei Floyd or his family...good people!)
We have had several good bye dinners with friends in the last week and tomorrow evening, we are going to a special picnic program for Courtney's first grade class. She has a speaking part and a singing solo, so my parents and I are very excited to see the performance. I have been told it is precious and to bring my tissues...I will definitely be recording this for Chad!
The house is nearly packed and ready to go. The next few days will be busy, but knowing each day brings Chad one day closer to home keeps me going. The daydreams about seeing him walking towards us in the airport are happening more frequently...there is a lot of excitement in our house even though we feel sad about leaving Nashville. Daddy being with us is better than living in Nashville without him ANY DAY ;-)

Hunter's Brick for AR...

2010-05-15T14:36:00.000-07:00

For those of you who have not seen this on facebook, here is Hunter's brick he had painted in honor of Chad. Granbery Elementary, Hunter and Courtney's school, encourages the students to participate in Accelerated Reader. There are various steps and incentives along the way to earning 150+ points and getting a brick painted anyway they like in the school's library. Hunter and Courtney have both earned free books this year. Additionally, Hunter has been to a pizza party and recently, was awarded his "brick" along with an invitation to the "AR Bash".
Earlier this school year, Hunter was convinced he would have the brick painted with the "Ghostbuster" symbol and a karate gi to represent two things he really loves. When he earned his 150 points, however, he changed his mind and came up with a design of an aircraft carrier and the America flag. This is his tribute to Chad and his time on the USS Eisenhower; what a legacy for Hunter to leave at Granbery as we prepare to move to North Carolina. Chad and I are very proud of Hunter's hard work and touched by his thoughtfulness towards Chad's service.

We are safe...

2010-05-04T18:13:00.000-07:00

Many of you have emailed, called, or written me via Facebook, so I thought I would take a moment to update here and let everyone know we are safe and dry. Unfortunately, much of our beautiful Nashville is not safe or dry, but submerged under several feet of water. The rains moved in so quickly that even my mom, Courtney, and I had a few scary moments getting home Saturday afternoon from a trip to the mall. This year has brought us weather conditions we have never seen and hopefully, ever will again. In January and February it was freezing temperatures, ice, and snow. Now it is rains, floods, and high waters. We have missed two more days of school and tomorrow will be day three from this weather event. There is no word yet on when or how we will make these days up; we just finished making up the snow days last Wednesday!
On a different note, I signed and mailed off the papers on our new house, so we are now home owners again! Three weeks from this Thursday, and the kids and I are NC bound. We are excited, but mostly about daddy coming home...the house is secondary!

The Squeaky Wheel...

2010-04-29T09:46:00.000-07:00

...gets the grease...
Yes, I am speaking of myself. If there is one lesson I have learned during this deployment, it is how to be the "squeaky wheel" so things get done! It is not always my disposition to be what I consider "pushy" but when it comes to certain aspects of my life, I have realized it is really the only way to make sure some people do what you pay them to do! Fortunately, I have squeaked to the right people this week and have resolved some big problems (hopefully!)
On Tuesday, I flew to NC and inspected the house. It is beautiful and beyond what the pictures I have previously posted convey. There were some things that needed to be fixed but overall, it truly took my breath away to think about this house being ours! The houses on each side of us are complete with new neighbors waiting for us to meet! They are breaking ground on lots across the street, so I expect we will have construction for the first several months of living in the neighborhood. The pool, playground, and walking trail are great and we can't wait to use them! Painters are painting a few rooms for us next weekend and four weeks from today, we are saying goodbye to Nashville. (Yes, that's when the real work begins...I get stressed just thinking about another move, and this one is out-of-state!)
Chad seems to be doing good...tired of the ship and ready to be home, but good. Not a problem, we are ready for him to be home, too! The kids are hanging in there, but the excitement over dad's return, the signs we plan to make for the airport, and their individual "dates" with dad is building! Dad's return is the source of many conversations, but Graham stills wants to know "why dad has been at work so long?" Courtney spends her free time writing Chad emails; they have developed a long list of things they will do together when he is home. She is a gifted writer and when I read her words written to her daddy, I end up with tears and a smile--every time! Hunter shows his pride in Chad by working out hard so he can be in the Navy, keeping his hair cut SHORT, and recently, by designing his "AR" brick at Granbery as a tribute to Chad. When the brick is complete, I will take pictures and post it...it really is one of the most touching things Hunter has ever done!
And I spend a lot of time thinking about all this year has brought to our family and how God has sustained me during trials I thought would not pass or I could not survive. There have been days I did not feel He was near, but knowing He was and that I needed to trust Him was enough to carry me through. He has used the most unique people this year to touch our lives and not always the ones we would have expected. Many people have done what they consider "simple" things, but given the right circumstances, those "simple" gifts provided comfort, encouragement, and new friendships. These people have reminded me of the importance of touching lives in ways I can and as the Lord leads me. We never really know how a simple act of kindness, even to a stranger, can impact their day or their life. I have been on the receiving end of such kindnesses this year and I am thankful for each person who showed me and the kids compassion during what has been a trying year.

Our House!

2010-04-14T19:36:00.000-07:00

The house in NC is nearly complete and it is so lovely! I cannot wait to get there in a couple of weeks and see it with my own eyes! I am researching every piece of furniture imaginable and trying to decide on decorations, colors, etc.! I cannot wait to see what Chad thinks since I picked everything out while he was at sea...

Happy Easter...

2010-04-04T11:12:00.000-07:00

Here are some sweet pics of my babies. Mom's not pictured because I was the last one to "bite the dust" this week and get sick. We are looking forward to a new week and hopefully, one that leaves Strep throat and this horrible stomach bug behind. Love you, sweet Chad.

Our House is Nashville...

2010-03-30T19:06:00.000-07:00

is now officially sold and no longer ours! And, we have new pics of the house in NC!!!! So excited! Chad, isn't this great?!??!!

Yes, I'm still alive!

2010-03-23T08:08:00.000-07:00

Things have been so crazy here and the blog has been the last thing on my mind. But, my sweet hubby needs pictures of the kids and his email does not always allow attachments, so I am making the time to update things. We close on our Nashville house next Tuesday and I am thankful for this answered prayer. It will be nice to leave Nashville in May with no ties (I don't mean our friends, just material things), so that we can focus on the tasks that lay ahead. So, because our house has sold, I have been a crazy woman trying to pack, sell things, organize, etc., etc., etc.! My precious kids have been amazing, even though last week's Spring Break was less than ideal! We had a HUGE hole in our entryway floor for about 8 hours last Monday while we made repairs for our buyer and the cold, damp weather kept the kids indoors most of the week. But, we survived, all repairs have been made, and this time next week, we will be settled in our town home to enjoy our last 2 months of life in Nashville. (Yes, it is only a 2-bedroom town home and yes, there will be no pictures on the walls, but it is nearing the time for Chad to return and that is all the matters to us!) That's the short version of the last few weeks. Honey, I love you. I hope you enjoy the pics of the brown-eyed babies...

Our House...

2010-03-07T17:34:00.000-08:00

Here is the latest picture (taken 3/6/10) of our new house in North Carolina! We are so excited! Also, we are thrilled that we have a contract to close on our house in Nashville on 3/30! As you probably guessed it, I am busy with moving preparations and trying to get things all together. I am blessed to have the help of my parents; they help carry some of the burdens right now. More when I have a chance...

The Ups and Downs...

2010-02-24T07:32:00.000-08:00

Last night was dance and Jujitsu for Courtney and Hunter. Grandmom was able to sit in the studio last night and watch Courtney dance, so we have some great pictures of our little tap dancing-jazz-ballerina. You might notice a HUGE hole in her tights...yes, I do buy my daughter nice, new tights, but she goes through more than I would have ever dreamed possible! Last night was only her second time to wear that particular pair; added to my Target list today: tights! Maybe I should consider buying stock in one of the companies...
While Courtney danced, Hunter and I went to Jujitsu. He had a great fight and is gaining great experience from all the new fighters in the class, two of which have a Judo background. We are sad, however, that one of his good buddies is taking a break for baseball season and will not be back until June. On the way home, we continued our new tradition and listened to "Ghostbusters" on my iPod!
And while Hunter and Courtney did their activities, Graham did his activities with Grandad (one of his favorite people in the world!). This morning, Graham left the house dressed as a cowboy for "Western Day" at school. He was the cutest little cowboy since Hunter was in pre-K, if I do say so myself. Trust me, it took some convincing to get him to wear the hat and bandanna, but he did! For some reason, he thinks cowboys are "old"...go figure!
While life goes on for us out of necessity, the kids and I find ourselves dealing with a variety of emotions while Chad is deployed. For the most part, we have adjusted to a temporary "normal" without Chad, but there are days and moments when each of feel his absence so deeply that we aren't sure we will survive. Last night was one of those times for Hunter. Hunter has been so brave about this situation and truly has been a young man any dad would be proud of. He is proud of his daddy and believes in what he does as a Navy officer and a doctor. Last night, however, he came to me and said, "When will dad be home?" It actually caught me off guard because he doesn't talk about the deployment that often. I could tell he was struggling, fighting back tears, which left me speechless for a minute and caused me to think about what might be going through his mind. He buried his head on my shoulder for a few minutes, and we talked about how much time has already passed and how we are nearing a significant portion being completed. I am thankful that he was able to bounce back quickly, because there are only so many moments of my kids feeling "lost" without their daddy that I can handle. It breaks my heart to see them hurt right now, but I am proud of how strong they are becoming, facing things most kids their ages will hopefully not have to face. I pray that this experience will teach them to consider others and what they might be going through before making judgments and casting stones...there is a lot to say about thinking about the roads people travel before you decide how they should act, feel, look, or talk. We are certainly experiencing one aspect of this now; some days, we just don't how we should act, feel, look, or talk without Chad here.
Chad, I know you worry about all you are missing, but I can assure you, the four of us have a huge place in our hearts and in our home that is waiting for you to come back and fill. Before you know it, it will be time for us to make "Welcome Home" signs to take to the airport...what a wonderful day that will be! We love you so much...

13 years and counting...

2010-02-21T11:33:00.000-08:00

Tomorrow, February 22nd, marks a very special day for Chad and me...13 years of marriage! It is hard to believe how little we knew about the road that lay ahead of us at 19 and 20, but we made it to this point and there is no turning back! I sometimes laugh and wonder how worried our parents were about us starting out so young...both in college, headed nearly 9 hours away from everything we knew to medical school, Houston, and the complete unknown! If they were concerned, they never let on, but supported us all the way and by God's grace, we survived some difficult days! Together, we have made it through college, medical school, graduate school, and surgical residency. And now, we are making it through our first year of active duty with the Navy. This latest feat has definitely been the most trying and difficult path we have walked. While we are confident in God's purpose for our lives and the path He set before us, we will both readily admit that we are ready for an end to this LONG year...thankfully, we are closing in and making progress! Despite everything, I could never imagine my life without Jeffery Chad Johnson and our three beautiful children. I love you, honey, and can't wait for you to get home. P.S. Don't be a baby sea gull...you are a Navy officer!

Well, we have MORE snow...

2010-02-15T07:51:00.001-08:00

This has been a winter like no other! Of all the years to have this much snow, freezing temperatures, and missed days of school, it happens while my husband is deployed and I am a single parent to three kids...AGH! We were already out of school today for Presidents' Day, but I am not holding out much hope that we will make it to school tomorrow. To make it even more depressing, we have used all of our snow days and have to make up one day, plus any more that we miss! I am not sure if they will make them up on Spring Break or tack them on to the end of the school year; we have no "official" word yet, just rumors...So, the kids and I have rented and watched many movies from the "Red Box" this winter, read a lot of books, played some Wii, and the kids have enjoyed their Nintendo DSs. Thankfully, we have not lost power like some of our Texas friends and I have always made it to the grocery store for the necessities before the snow hits. I guess there are positives, even on a dreary winter day! This past weekend produced six showings on our house and one offer, which we rejected. I am praying for a good offer at the right time from the right buyer. I have cleaned this house more than I ever dreamed possible for what is now about 30 showings since the end of October! My dad even jokes that if I keep sweeping, mopping, and vacuuming, I am going to rub holes in the floors! On a happy note, Chad was able to call twice this weekend!! The kids and I got to talk to him and as Hunter said, it was good to hear his voice. Courtney told him that Valentine's was not good without him and Graham said, "We'll meet you at our new house, dad." (That was my favorite part of yesterday! Graham just skips right to the end...wish we could really do that!!) Chad is glad to now have access to facebook so he can connect with more friends and family, but is very disappointed that there will be no port call this month. About all he can do is workout, see patients (if there are any), eat, and look forward to movie night (assuming the movie is something he wants to see!). Between all this, he stands ready for anything and everything that might walk through his office door...he has now performed TWO surgeries that he had never done that fall out of the scope of General Surgery. (He actually had to pull his anatomy books, look at pictures, and go from there!) He has an amazing gift and I am proud and thankful that God is using him in such a powerful way. (BUT WE ARE VERY READY FOR HIM TO COME HOME AND PRACTICE MEDICINE STATESIDE!) Chad, I am including pictures of Courtney before her Valentine's party at school, the "Ghostbusters" boys playing Wii, and today's snow in the backyard (even as it continues to fall...) We love you very much...XOXO

Hunter the Super Jujitsu Blackbelt!

2010-02-10T19:35:00.000-08:00

Chad, here are the pictures I promised of Hunter fighting last night at jujitsu. He took down the biggest guy in the class and forced him to "tap out" which was really exciting! As you look at the pictures, they make look blurry...that is because of the speed the boys were moving. It was an intense fight!There are two new boys, brothers, who just joined the class that are closer to Hunter's size/age. They have martial arts training, so Sensei Floyd says they will keep Hunter on his toes and challenge him to work hard. It is always good to get new fighters in the class; complacency is no way for Hunter to improve. Courtney wore her Navy sweats/shirt you bought her tonight under her AWANAS vest; she also wore her pink "Navy" socks. I forgot to take a picture, but she looked pretty cute! Graham made some sweet Valentine's at Cubbies tonight and came home with a special snack that Ms. Liz gave him on the way home. (The kids love it when Ms. Liz, Carter, Emma, and Ben take them to AWANAS on Wednesday nights!) Graham asked me again today how many more days until daddy comes home...I still haven't found the best way to explain that to a 4-years-old boy that adores his Navy dad...I guess the point is for you to know you are loved and missed by everyone here. On a personal note, today is February 10th...Do you remember what happened one week and 17 years ago?!? Hard to believe, but that was the first time we spoke. I hope that puts a smile on your face...it certainly does mine. I miss you and think about you with every step I take, lunch I pack, or question I answer (and you know there are a lot of questions asked in this house!). Can't wait for your next phone call and for you to come home!

Another Week Down!

2010-02-08T08:39:00.000-08:00

This is one Monday I was glad to see dawn. Last week was probably one of the longest of my life! I am thankful to feel better and hopefully, be over the horrible head cold that hung around longer than I would have liked! I have too many things to do and three precious babies to take care of to be sick! I am so thankful God's mercies are new every morning and that He gives us a fresh week to start things over! The kids were out of school last Monday and Tuesday because of snow, so by the time Wednesday rolled around, the pantry, fridge, and freezer were just about about empty and I was ready for some time alone! Five straight days of being in the house with three kids and little to no adult conversation will do that to a girl! I am definitely ready for Spring and sunshine! Our house in Nashville showed FOUR times last week, which is good, but exhausting. Sometimes I feel like we live in a museum that people tour for free! More exciting than the showings was that our new house in North Carolina broke ground and is officially being built! In that regard, time seems to be moving along, but for Chad, the kids and me, time can't move fast enough. Chad is stuck with pretty much the same routine day to day unless something "exciting" happens and he gets to operate. I know he is anxious to step off of the ship for a bit but as the joke goes, it is the military and there are no guarantees, even though port calls are generally a part of deployment. I have a feeling that some of the stories he has to share once he returns will blow my mind! Based on the movies he has told me I need to watch to catch a glimpse into his Navy world, there is a whole other side to life I never imagined (or him, for that matter) before this deployment! Fortunately, there is our "real life" and our faith in God's plan and provision that keeps both of us grounded and focused on our future and our reunion as a family. Although both of us have burdens to bear right now, we begin to talk about the kids, our marriage, and other difficult times God has guided us through, and most things come into focus and our path becomes more clear. Hunter continues to become more like Chad every day and in every way that matters. He is loving, kind, compassionate and a wonderful leader, like his daddy. Courtney continues to think "out of the box" and blow me away with her insight and "spunky not punky" (most of the time...) attitude, just like her daddy. And Graham tries to comb his hair perfectly, like daddy would do if he were here, and wear his cologne so he can smell like daddy. These are the things that make Chad and me smile and hold us together while we are apart...these are the things we have invested are lives in and that matter to us the most. I am so thankful to know that no matter what the day brings and how I feel during this deployment, God never changes, nothing catches Him by surprise, and He knows how all the pieces will fit together! Chad...I love you...four hand squeezes are being sent your way!

Hunter

2010-01-31T16:52:00.000-08:00

Graham

2010-01-31T16:47:00.000-08:00

Snow, snow, and more snow!

2010-01-31T16:19:00.000-08:00

Well, I sure am glad I watched the weather and heeded the warnings from local meteorologists! We did get snow and A LOT of it! Fortunately, I purchased food necessities prior to the snow fall and rented a couple of DVDs to keep us entertained. Today marked day three of being in the house and school has been canceled for tomorrow. Mom got out this afternoon and brought us some milk and a few other things from the grocery store so I wouldn't have to get out. Later in the day, however, I decided to try and venture out, knowing our neighborhood would be the worst part of the drive. The errands I ran weren't vital, except to my own sanity. (The kids haven't been bad, but I thought some fresh DVDs might help, especially once I learned we would be home again tomorrow.) So we did fine on our little journey until we came back into the neighborhood. As those of you who have visited our home know, Tennessee has some hills and our neighborhood as a steep one when you enter the subdivision. Along with jogging up this hill, I can now add driving up this hill on ice to my "hate list"! It took me THREE tries before I made it up the hill and the help of a very nice gentleman who not only told me how to drive up it, but also helped me back down it to try again. I would be embarrassed but hey, I grew up in Texas. We didn't get much snow like this and we did not have the hills like this, either. He grew up in Wisconsin, so he knew exactly what to do. I am considering him an angel tonight...I am not sure what I would have done without his help, except panic. That said, I DO NOT plan to venture out again until this ice and snow is GONE...and can I just say "I AM READY FOR SPRING!!" Now Chad, I did even better than the pictures you asked for, I have video of the kids in the snow! I hope you enjoy it and don't worry, I didn't include the video of Hunter busting his knee open on the deck...who needs to see that?!?! (Trust me, one time was enough!) I love you babe...take care of yourself. P.S. For those who haven't heard...I FOUND MY WEDDING RING...on my birthday!! Courtney said, "God knew where it was. He was just saving it for your birthday." I love my girl!

Piggy pancakes, pjs, and pre-k...

2010-01-27T16:48:00.000-08:00

Today was pajama day for Graham in Ms. Dawn's class. After much deliberation, he chose to wear his Thomas pjs (yes, the ones that used to fit but now make him look like the "Incredible Hulk" about to burst out of the seams!) and took "Lovie" and "Scratch" in his backpack for rest time. I volunteered with another mom to help make the pancakes so I was able to see Graham in action and take some cute pictures. He made me sand birthday cakes while I cooked and kissed me a million times. He also told me more than once "you're the best, mom". This is definitely a day I always want to remember! Chad, the first thing he did when we got to school was to build an aircraft carrier complete with details he remembered from our trip. I took a picture so you could see it and know how much you are loved and thought of here at home. I hope you enjoy them...hugs and kisses are being sent your way!

Hangin' in there with smiles!

2010-01-25T15:58:00.000-08:00

We continue to plod our way through this stage in our lives. Things have been crazy busy with five house showings the last week, dentist appointments for Hunter and Courtney, homework, AWANAS and all the other activities we try to squeeze in during the week. I am starting to wear down just a little bit! There are some nights I am wishing it was bed time at 5 o'clock! Graham got some special Grandmom and Grandad loving this past weekend since it was his turn to spend the night at their house and I enjoyed an evening with my big kids. On Saturday, Graham and the grandparents joined us for an adventure at the movie theater to see "The Toothfairy". Grandad and I laughed as much as the kids did and we all enjoyed the popcorn and cokes! Hunter continues to eat me out of house and home and offer timeless pieces of advice, just like Chad would if he were here. My sweet Courtney inherited my "sentimental" gene and asked me to switch the song playing on my iPod tonight while we cooked dinner because it was "just too sad" and made her "think of daddy". She comes up with analogies about our situation while dad is away and creates stories about our family from images she sees around town. On the way to church yesterday, the story was about a triangle of raindrops that had four drops of rain. She said it was just like our family right now...missing "one drop of rain"...her daddy. I am not able to explain it the way she did; some times, her mind works on a whole different level! It was sweet and priceless comment. Chad seems to be doing well. We have been fortunate to have one phone call each week which gives me something to look forward to and us a chance to try and catch up on things. We email daily, but some things are very hard to get into an email and I just love to hear his voice! Please keep Chad, his safety, and protection in your prayers. This isn't exactly where I thought our family would be when we began this journey nearly 13 years ago, but it is the place God led us. We trust Him for his protection and peace during this time and that He will return Chad safely to us (soon, please!). (Chad...take care of yourself today...you are loved and missed so much...)

Ragamuffins, cooties, and lost wedding rings...

2010-01-21T13:26:00.000-08:00

I love my children and the precious stories that come daily while raising them. Some days, they just take my breath away and make me smile more than I would have ever dreamed possible. This afternoon has been one of those times. Graham and I arrived early at the carpool line, picked up the kids, and piled back packs and lunch boxes into the car. From the back seat as we pull away from the school, Courtney yells up, "Hey, mom! Do I look like a ragamuffin girl today or is my hair still fixed?" I just laughed my head off! You have to understand that most days, when Courtney comes home, she looks NOTHING like the little girl I sent to school! She has scraggly hair, colored marker on her arms and clothes, and sometimes, dirt or food from head to toe! Today, however, the precious braids I put in her hair were still in place after a full day of first grade. (She did somehow manage to get a hole in her leggings, but oh well!) Hunter then begins to tell me that today they began square dancing in PE. This immediately made me think of you, Chad; I recall stories from your elementary days and how well you could square dance! Hunter said everyone in 3rd grade is so scared of "cooties" that the girls danced with girls and the boys with boys...he DID NOT like this! (Chad--his partner is someone you know...starts with an "M" and ends with a "d"!) I told him maybe he should ask one of the girls to dance with him next time and he said, "okay". The worst they could say is no, right?! (Based on the chasing of Hunter that has been going on during recess, I do no think a couple of the girls will turn him down...if they do, they are crazy!) The sad news for today is a carry over from yesterday...I have lost or misplaced my priceless wedding ring. Yes, the very one that has the solitaire Chad purchased for me in high school and the wedding band that was his grandmother's. I have searched high and low and cannot find it anywhere...I have cried many tears over that ring. But, as sweet Hunter put it, I least I didn't lose one of my children! (Chad...don't worry, I don't plan to lose Hunter, Courtney, or Graham while you are gone. I love you Lt. Commander Johnson...)

"My name is not cool!"

2010-01-19T15:54:00.000-08:00

Graham informed me earlier that his name is not "cool" and he wishes he had a "cool" name. I've been thinking about what we could have named him that would have been "cool" in his mind. Chad, we could have gone with "Maximus" like you wanted, but after looking at this picture of him dressed as a Ghostbuster (complete with a vintage "ghost trap" and "proton pack" from the 80's), I'm thinking he might have liked to been named "Egon"! (Not that I would have ever done that to my child!)

Progress is progress!!!

2010-01-17T14:54:00.000-08:00

I am thankful to report we are still surviving deployment! It may not seem like much, but progress is progress! Between taking care of the kids and cleaning for showings of the house (2 yesterday!), I have been very busy. Each day I pack a box and I have looked at every furniture website available, planning our new house, decorations, and kitchen supplies! The best time passers, however, are: sending Chad emails, reading emails from Chad, packing him a box of goodies, or my FAVORITE, talking to him on the phone! The kids and I also enjoy reading about his work and watching military shows about the Navy on TV. Chad seems to be doing well and is adjusting to life on the ship, although he longs for the day he returns to dry land. I have a million things I want "to do" as a family on my mental "list" when he returns; I'm sure he has even more things in mind...daily luxuries that we take for granted. Always the trooper, he never complains and seems to find the positive in every situation. He truly is the most amazing person I know doing a wonderful thing he believes in and setting a wonderful example for our boys. If our recent discussions are indication, Chad will not be the last Johnson man to serve in the United States Navy...there are two little guys who want to be just like their daddy...maybe even Navy SEALs!

A daddy and his girl...

2010-01-14T15:15:00.000-08:00

Courtney seems to be struggling the most (of the kids) with Chad being gone. Here's a glimpse into a very precious relationship between father and daughter. The words of each say all there is to say...

"I miss you. All of us do. We really need you here. It's hard without you. I love you. You mean a lot to us. We really, really do need you. We have to have you back. We all need you really bad.

Love-
Courtney"

"Courtney,

I love you very much. I miss your soft little face and your beautiful complexion. I miss watching you read your books and play kitties with Graham. You mean a lot to me and I’m very proud of you. Keep up the hard work for Momma and do good in school for Mrs. Stark. It may seem like a long way away right now, but I will be home sooner than you realize.

I love you.

Dad"

Report cards, a pirate, a rabbit, and a surviving wife...

2010-01-12T07:48:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was the kids first day back after the weekend and 2 snow days! Whew...it was kind of nice to have a quiet house for a few hours! For Hunter and Courtney, yesterday was report card day. I was very pleased with their grades and reports from school. They both have wonderful teachers this year and are learning so much.
Courtney is struggling with our upcoming move and even got teary-eyed on the way home yesterday because she will not be able to move on with her classmates next year at Granbery. Instead of dwelling on it, I reassured her we will all make new friends and reminded her that she will now have her own "girlie" room and that we could start planning it right now. So, when we got home, we looked at furniture and bedding online and discovered we have some of the same things in mind for her new room! I am so blessed to have her as a daughter! (This morning I just had to smile when I walked into the room and saw her "Littlest Pet Shop" rabbit tucked into covers on her bed...she is such a girl and an animal lover!)
Hunter continues to push himself in his workouts and sets a wonderful example for his little brother. He watches over me like a hawk, builds cool toys for Graham, and loves on Courtney when she needs it. He has several girls that like to chase him at school which makes me smile and daddy proud! He is a good catch, if I do say so myself!
Graham continues to be 4 and that about sums it up! He loves going to school but just about drives me crazy on Tuesdays and Thursdays because he misses Hunter and Courtney...he plans all day long what he will do with them when they get home! I have applied to 4 preschools for his upcoming school year with the hopes that we get in to at least one. I actually struggled with the decision about where to put him, how many days, etc., but after some great advice from Chad, my mom, and a good teacher friend from Judson, came to a decision and now have peace. We will see what schools give us a spot and go from there!
Chad reports that he is doing well and even getting a little time in the OR. Some sailors are fortunate to have the best surgeon in the Navy taking care of them (hey, I'm biased but it is my blog!). He us study to qualify for his Surface Warfare medal which actually requires a lot of extra studying and testing on his part. He also continues to read and prepare for his fellowship at Duke, which is fast approaching. I hope these things are helping him to pass the time.
And now to me...it turns out I am still breathing and I actually have an appetite again! There were a few days after Chad first left that I was not sure I would physically or emotionally be able to take another step. But thankfully, God's grace is sufficient and there is peace, even in life's greatest trials. My mind tends to drift a lot and most of the day, I do spend thinking about Chad and his return. I can almost picture in my mind what it will be like to see him walk to us for the first time in 6 months and that brings tears, but they are happy tears. And in between those moments, I think back to a recent trip to Target where bikinis are already out, even though it is 20 degrees outside...it seems I am not the only one who longs for summer, just maybe for a different reason! Chad, if you read this...the kids and I miss you, we love you, and we are very proud of all you are doing!

It doesn't take much..

2010-01-07T16:12:00.000-08:00

...snow to make three kids smile (or to miss school in Metro-Davidson County)! The kids were very smart to realize that although we did not get much snow, it might be our only snow this year, and they NEEDED to play in it! They had so much fun on the deck and their swing set! They came in to a nice hot bath and fresh pj's...I think I might switch places with them some time! Their day was made even better when I informed them that school had also been canceled for tomorrow. Hey, I'm not complaining...I love having them home and not setting an alarm! On another happy note, Courtney lost a tooth today! She is very excited that she pulled it herself and I am a little relieved...teeth pulling is a daddy job in our house...mom gets too squeamish! We are loving you and missing you in cold Tennessee, Chad...

Courtney and the Easy Bake Oven

2010-01-04T16:37:00.001-08:00

Courtney baked her first cake today in her Easy Bake Oven from Santa. The whole time I could hear her whispering under her breath "Thank you so much, Santa." It was really priceless! The cake is exactly what you would expect from an Easy Bake Oven, but the memory of her excitement was the best part! Graham has had a rough afternoon. He broke down crying for his daddy. It took a good half hour and some pizza, but I think I helped him through his rough spell. He asked me to send him a "Monk-e-mail" because that is something daddy does with him. I did my best, but I am not nearly as funny as Chad!

2010-01-03T13:32:00.000-08:00

We are now a Blue Star family...

2010-01-03T12:52:00.000-08:00

Chad, the kids and I were able to enjoy many wonderful moments our last week together in Virginia. We had family meals at special restaurants, a movie at the Cinema Cafe, trips to daddy's ship, and a visit to a very cool museum where saw REAL pirate treasure! Many things about this past week were memorable and bittersweet at the same time. Chad and I spent time talking about things we have pulled through during our marriage that at those times, we thought were the most difficult situations we would face. After all, medical school was not easy and money was tight! At 20, that seemed like a huge trial. We laugh now at the fears and concerns we had then, given what we have since experienced. I guess the difference this time around is that Chad and I will endure this trial apart and not at each other's side. That is certainly not easy.
Honestly, this week was what I had dreaded for months and yesterday was one of the hardest days of my life. Hugging the person you love most in this world for the last time until he returns months down the road is not easy. I'm not sure how I took the steps that led me from the aircraft carrier to my car, but somehow, I did. (Perhaps it was the bitter cold that drove me to seek refuge!) I had cried most of the morning and as I walked away, the tears fell freely. As I neared the parking lot, I looked up to see a window to an SUV rolled down and a younger woman looking at me. She did not say a word, but the look on her face told me all I needed to know...she knew exactly what I was feeling. I sensed a compassion in that moment that I am thankful God allowed me to experience from someone who has probably faced this more times than I would dream possible. I will carry the faces of those I saw eating breakfast with their sailor one last time in my minde while Chad is gone. I will remember there are other children missing their daddies and mommies and there are many wives desperate to see their husbands, just like me. Most of all, I will look forward to the day CHAD comes HOME!
This whole experience has made me thankful for my faith in Jesus Christ and the hope that HE gives me for peace, comfort, and guidance in difficult times, even when it seems hopeless. I wrote earlier that I'm not sure how I took the steps away from Chad and to my car. Humanly speaking, those steps would not have been made, but I was seeking God's comfort as I took each step and praying for His peace to comfort me. Even the few things I have accomplished today could not have been done in my own power or current state of mind, trust me!
I am also very thankful for my wonderful parents and the best traveling companions in the world (better known as "Grandmom" and "Grandad"). Without them and their loving hands, I would have never made it back to Tennessee. I am blessed to have so many people help me during this deployment and to have my mom dad just a phone call away.
CHAD---The picture of Hunter and Graham is of them playing Ghostbusters this morning...Hunter made his own PKE goggles out of Legos! Love you babe!

Made it to Virginia!

2009-12-28T05:59:00.001-08:00

It took us about 11 hours, but the kids did great and we made it to Virginia yesterday, late afternoon. Chad has already taken Hunter aboard to see the ship and help him move some of his things to his room. Needlessly to say, Hunter absolutely LOVED every moment. He loved that people were saluting his dad and even decided to salute back! This morning, we drove Chad to the Eisenhower and Graham and Courtney were able to catch their first glimpse of daddy's temporary home. There was a lot of excitement in the car and when Chad got out, Courtney said, "I think daddy looks so nice in his uniform, Mom." There are moments when my emotions get the best of me, and this was one of those. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for people in uniform, but especially so now. Chad really is an amazing man as all are men and women who serve in such an unselfish way. I think most of us realize that, but I have to say that after being aboard the ship and seeing how the men and women live, I do have a deeper appreciation for the military and the sacrifices made for our freedom.
Well, I am off to make sure Chad's sheets and blankets smell like home...I brought my laundry supplies with me so I can wash them one last time and they will smell the way he likes them...this was a special request! Thank you so much for remembering our family...we love you all so much and really appreciate your prayers.

Packed and ready to head to Virginia...

2009-12-26T13:49:00.000-08:00

The day we have been anticipating is fast approaching. Chad's ship deploys next Saturday, January 2nd. We have enjoyed a wonderful Christmas with both sets of our parents and my youngest brother, Jacob. It hit me yesterday that this was a special Christmas for more reasons than one because this will be the last one spent in Nashville and in our home of 8 1/2 years. Thankfully, we were able to make many wonderful memories and I am sure the echoes of laughter will live on in our hearts for years to come!
Chad and I have spent the morning taking down Christmas decorations, doing laundry, and packing the car with all the items he will need for 6 months and the things the kids and I will need for the next week. While speaking to my oldest brother (Justin) this morning, I told him I was surprisingly calm and "together". Well, that lasted until Chad began pulling his uniforms out of the closet and packing his Navy issued bags; our reality is about to change (again!) and we will be apart for longer than I ever dreamed would happen when we married nearly 13 years ago.
Tomorrow will be a long day for us as we travel to Norfolk with the kids. Please keep us in your prayers for a safe trip as well as our return trip next Saturday. My parents will be joining us later this week, so please pray for their safety as well.
In light of events as recent as yesterday, we realize the importance of what many men and women have done to protect and defend our country in recent days and in the past. The kids and I are very proud of Chad's contribution to our country, but worry for his safety. Please pray for the entire staff of men and women who will be boarding the USS Eisenhower next Saturday and for their safe return in July. There will be many families like us missing their loved ones, too, so a prayer for those families would also be appreciated. Virginia bound...

Hunter earns his black belt!!

2009-12-25T19:55:00.000-08:00

After 4 years of training in Brazilian Jujitsu, Hunter earned his black belt on Tuesday, December 22nd! This was a very special night for our family and one that was marked with a surprise celebration dinner at home with the grandparents and Uncle Jacob. We were so glad that Chad was able to be home and witness this once in a lifetime event!

A Taurus, a Laundry Bag, and a Handsome Husband

2009-12-19T10:11:00.000-08:00

Last Friday brought all three of these things to my doorstep! Chad made it home from Norfolk last Friday evening to enjoy two weeks of leave in Nashville! Seeing that old white car pull into the driveway (yes, the same one we've had since medical school!) was one of the most exciting moments this year! The children and I anxiously waited in the house where it was warm while he pulled his laundry bag from the trunk and met us at the front door. Let's just say there was a little excitement in the house at that point! Daddy was home and our family was complete! We are enjoying every moment we have together and have created some special memories we will carry with us until next summer when we are reunited.

Programs and A Birthday Celebration!

2009-12-07T06:41:00.000-08:00

Last week was one of the craziest weeks ever! On Thursday evening, Courtney performed (as a penguin) in a program at Granbery. She sang and even had a speaking part! The school cafeteria was hot and crowded with lots of crazy parents and grandparents (including me and my parents!), but we had fun watching this first grade performance. On Friday and Saturday evening, Hunter and Courtney sang in our church's Christmas program which was just beautiful. Grandmom and Grandad joined me Friday evening for the performance and dinner. The kids dressed up in their Christmas best both nights, which was a bigger deal to Courtney than Hunter! On Saturday, Hunter turned 9! We celebrated with a movie in Cool Springs, presents and cookies with Grandmom and Grandad and a TEXAS win (hey for all you critics--my father-in-law specifically--a WIN IS A WIN!!)! On Sunday, we had a showing, so by the time 9 o'clock rolled around, I was in bed and asleep! We look forward to Chad's return this Friday and 22 days of family time before he deploys!

The bad thing about a blog...

2009-12-01T20:03:00.000-08:00

is that you have to actually work on it to keep it up-to-date!! Unfortunately, things have been a little hectic in preparing for the holidays, Hunter's and Courtney's birthdays, and Chad's deployment. I have lists for my lists so I know what to do next!! (And we won't even talk about keeping the house clean for showings...seriously, this house has got to sale!!!) There has been much that has happened since my last post on November 1st. Graham had his preschool Open House and was able to show me and Grandad his classroom and some of his artwork. Hunter has earned two stripes on his brown belt in Brazilian Jujitsu and will be testing for his black belt in the near future! The princess has been preparing for her stage debut at Granbery Elementary as a Christmas penguin! And I got to travel to North Carolina and visit the design studio to pick out all of the things we wanted in our new home. This was such an adventure and we are so excited that Centex will be breaking ground soon at 409 Liberty Rose Drive!! Life has been busy and anything but dull! The most exciting thing to happen was for Chad to come home for Thanksgiving! We were able to enjoy five wonderful days as a family and even created our own special Thanksgiving meal and new traditions! We enjoyed catching a Christmas movie in 3-D and our favorite, a trip to Krispy Kreme Donuts! We hung out in our pj's, shopped for Christmas presents online, and enjoyed all of Chad's favorite meals! Unfortunately, the time went too fast and before we knew it, Sunday had come and we had to put Chad on a plane for Norfolk. Every goodbye has been difficult since Chad left in June, but as we near his deployment, I seem to struggle more. I shared with my dad this morning that there are times that it takes my breath away when I think about going six months without seeing Chad's face or holding his hand. But then I think about how fortunate we are to have the holidays with him before he leaves and what it would be like if he were already gone. There are so many military families who will spend another Christmas on separate continents, missing their loved ones. While I cannot put all of my kids' fears and concerns to rest or my own doubts of how I will survive without Chad, I am finding comfort and strength as I am reminded through scripture that God knows the plans He has for each of us (His children) and that those plans are to prosper us, not harm us. I am thankful nothing we encounter is anything that has not passed through His hands or that He has not ordained for our lives. God is not surprised!! Please remember to pray for us. Chad, the kids, and I will be traveling to Norfolk on December 27th where we will stay with him until we see his ship off on January 2nd. My mom and dad will be joining us on the 31st and driving back with me and the kids so we will not have to travel alone. More than me and the kids, please lift Chad up in prayer. Please pray for his safety, his protection, and strength as he is away from home. We are blessed to have so many supporting us during this time. We love you!

Moving Along...

2009-11-01T08:02:00.000-08:00

Chad and I just returned from our wonderful trip to Florida! Mad Dog survived the kids and even prepared our house for 3 showings while we were gone! We have had one offer on the house, but things did not work out, so we are content to stay put a little longer. Chad passed his boards and headed back to Virginia this morning. He sets sail tomorrow morning for a 3-week training mission (COM2X) prior to his deployment on January 2nd. If things go according to plan (ha ha), we should be able to spend Thanksgiving together as a family as well as Christmas! We were able to enjoy Halloween activities yesterday with my parents, Uncle Jake, and a TEXAS win!!! I have included pics of the kids all dressed up!

Daddy's Good Luck Charms

2009-10-18T08:03:00.000-07:00

Chad is in Washington D.C. preparing for his oral boards. He has to check in at 11:30 tomorrow morning, so please keep him in your prayers. He will be home some time this upcoming Thursday so he can take a re-certification course in trauma life support. Mad Dog (Chad's mom) is flying in Saturday to take on the task of caring for the grand babies so Chad and I can spend some time together in Florida! After four trips to Disney World with the kids and each set of grandparents, we have decided to take in the sights alone!!! When we return on October 30th, we will make final preparations for the 31st's dress up events and enjoy a couple of days with daddy before he sets sail for the first three weeks of November. Time is going fast as we near January 2nd, but we continue to feel God's presence and see His provision in many areas. Thank you for remembering our family in your prayers. Enjoy the picture of our precious babies who have been real troopers through this entire process!

Graham Maxwell Turns Four While Daddy is Home!

2009-10-12T19:30:00.001-07:00

I know, I know, I know...I have not done a good job keeping up with the blog lately. Things just seem to be moving quickly here and time gets away from me!

For example, where did the last four years go?!? My baby is now four, in preschool, and quite the independent man! He chose to celebrate his birthday at Chuck E. Cheese and received many "Thomas the Tank Engine" gifts from all the grandparents! He was thrilled that daddy was able to go with us and enjoy the pizza and games (no, I did NOT have to twist Chad's arm to play video games with his boys!), but sad that Chuck E. did not make an appearance so daddy could give him a "high 5" for Gray. (Hey, we may be four, but big, fuzzy, gray rats still scare us!--Jeff and dad, no need to wonder which parent he inherited his fear or rodents from, huh?!?) Make sure you check out the great pics of the grown-ups in action at his party...Chad is not the only one who enjoyed the games!

As of a few minutes ago, Chad made it back to Norfolk after four days in Tennessee. He will spend the rest of the week preparing for his oral General Surgery boards, which are next week in D.C. Please remember him in your prayers this week as he studies and travels for this test.

We have moved up the listing date for our home to next week, if all of my planned projects for this week stay on track and I can get the rest of the house cleaned out! I have discovered that the only way to may a house that five people have outgrown look larger is to pack things up, throw things away, and start a garage sale pile! So, that is what I (and Chad this weekend!) have done! We will see how it goes!

Amidst all this, I will strive to post more pictures and updates on the kiddos!!

An update and pictures from the last post...

2009-09-24T07:54:00.001-07:00

Things continue to move along here. Chad was set to be at sea for 10 days beginning this past Monday, but there were technical difficulties in engineering, so there has been a delay. At this point, he is still in port in Norfolk and is unsure of the training exercises will proceed as planned or be canceled altogether...we will see! The kids continue to excel in school and their sports, so we are quite busy on the home front. So much of what we accomplish in a week would not be possible without help from Grandmom and Grandad and our sweet church family and friends who are helping me with the kids. This has truly been a blessing and I actually feel sane most of the time, which is always a plus! I am including pictures from Hunter's Jujitsu tournament, Graham's first day of pre-k and Courtney dressed for picture day...my camera decided it would cooperate today! Right now we are not sure when we will see Chad again. He was supposed to come home next weekend so he could see the kids, but if they change this current mission, we may have to skip a visit. Please remember him in your prayers as he prepares for the Oral Boards in General Surgery coming up in October. When he passes, he will be board certified!!

My camera is not working but...

2009-09-14T08:14:00.000-07:00

A lot is happening in the Johnson household, including technical difficulties with our camera. So, I have wonderful pictures to share that will have to wait until another day!
Graham began his first day of preschool last Wednesday and absolutely loved it! He is so excited to have Hunter's pre-k teacher and she was pretty delighted to have him! She had a lot of wonderful things to say about our little Graham and his willingness to help and work with others. (This is always a wonderful thing to hear as a mother since he can be a little "toot" at home sometimes!) He goes to school on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, so I now have some alone time built into my weekly schedule, which I need.
On Saturday, we woke up at 4am and traveled to Atlanta with Grandmom and Grandad for a NAGA jujitsu tournament. Hunter competed in the advanced gi and no-gi divisions and took 2nd and 3rd place. There were a few frustrations in this experience, but I think Hunter and I both learned something valuable. I was very proud to watch him fight, but sad that Chad had to miss it. I can do a lot of things very well for my children, but their daddy is a special man who fills needs I cannot. This weekend has been difficult without him, but we will live to fight another day!
I will be leaving Thursday evening to fly to VA and spend the weekend with Chad. Then, on Monday, he will be at sea on the Eisenhower for a 10-day training exercise. Please pray for his safety and my peace of mind since we will have limited phone access, if any. Thank you for thinking of our family.

Daddy's Homecoming September 2009

2009-09-06T13:44:00.000-07:00

Friday morning brought many smiles to the Johnson household...the day of daddy's arrival finally got here and a 4-day weekend with him began! Although daddy's plane was a little delayed because of fog, he arrived safely and in time for a visit to the kids' school to eat lunch and talk with some of their teachers! We were able to see so many of the teachers at Granbery that have become a part of our family over the years and thank them for caring for our children. Chad was able to share some exciting and surprising news with Hunter and Courtney. They were concerned that we had left Graham home alone since he was not with us (why they would really think this is beyond me since we have NEVER left one of them home alone a day in their life!), but were delighted to learn that Mad Dog and Papa Jeff (Chad's parents) had also flown in and were visiting for the weekend! I felt a little guilty leaving these excited children at school (more for their teachers than them!), but they finished the day and were very excited to see daddy with mom in the carpool line. Hunter even hugged him in public which is a pretty big deal for a 3rd grader! We were able to enjoy some of our favorite foods this weekend (including Texas BBQ) and visit some of our traditional places we have come to enjoy while living in Nashville (the "animal mall"-named such by our kids because of The Rainforest Cafe, formally known as the "Opry Mills Mall"). Our time with Chad seems to go quickly, but we will take what we can get. His aircraft carrier is set to deploy January 2, 2010, and will be gone the entire Spring semester; he will return home in time to move to North Carolina and start his fellowship at Duke on July 1st. Please remember our family as we near this stage; it is hard to go 2-5 weeks without daddy, but six months is overwhelming to even think about.

Daddy's Girl...

2009-08-31T14:19:00.000-07:00

Sweet Courtney is so excited for daddy to come home! She has (by far) been the most emotional about him being gone. She has a hard time doing any activities that he likes to do (like family trips to Krispy Kreme, also known as "double K") because she does not think we should do fun family things when such an important person is missing (these are her words, not mine!). This weekend upcoming will be a joy for her since we can do the things we love to do as a complete family! Bring on the weekend!!!

Graham at work...

2009-08-26T12:12:00.000-07:00

We are getting into a good routine for school, but Graham is a little bored and ready for pre-K to start. He does enjoy going to the Y with me every morning after we take the kids to school and helping me "drive" in the carpool line in the afternoons. His favorite spot to play right now is my room...on my bed...surrounded by his favorite "boy" toys. his current interests include Thomas, firefighters, and Navy "sneals" (what he wants to be when he grows up so he can work with daddy!). There are many evenings that I hear the pitter patter of little feet across the floor and awake to find him climbing in bed in his daddy's spot! Chad will be home in about 9 days and we can't wait to see him!

COBY THIS IS FOR YOU!

2009-08-21T21:20:00.001-07:00

I have just been informed by my dear husband that my brother-in-law told him that "some times the blog goes a while without an update"...Gee, Coby, I am just a little bit busy being a mom and dad to 3 kids! For the record, the first week of school went well; Hunter and Courtney LOVE school and their teachers. Graham has been a little bored, but finds comfort in getting suckers from a nice gentleman at the YMCA and has succeeded in overflowing the upstairs toilet! (It caused more havoc in the the downstairs restroom, so it was dramatic to say the least!) Coby--there are no new pictures right now since I am in Virginia with Chad...I will do my best to post new ones when I return. Cut a sister some slack...I am doing the best I can! By the way, your brother looks INCREDIBLE!!!!!

The First Day of 3rd & 1st grade...

2009-08-14T06:35:00.000-07:00

I just left half of my heart at Granbery Elementary. Courtney started 1st grade today and Hunter 3rd grade. I think they were ready, but I really wasn't! I was so glad that when Graham and I walked out the school doors, he turned to me and asked for me to hold him...I did not hesitate to do so! His school starts in a few weeks, but for now, I will enjoy having one baby home with me. Please pray for Hunter, Courtney, and their teachers this year. We want this to be a wonderful year of learning!

A Visit to Virginia!

2009-08-06T10:37:00.001-07:00

Last Wednesday, Chad and I packed up both cars and the kids so we could move him to Norfolk. We drove to Asheville, NC on Wednesday and stayed the night before continuing on to Virginia on Thursday. We were able to enjoy some nice family time with Chad before he reported to the USS Eisenhower on Friday, July 31st. While he was getting acquainted with the ship, I took the kid to Chesapeake Bay Beach for some summer fun! We had a wonderful time and saw many exciting things. Hunter caught several jellyfish that we were actually able to touch because their tentacles were enclosed inside their bodies. We also saw several different types of crabs (both alive and dead...Graham was fascinated by the "ones that don't chase me"). Courtney loved switching between the water and digging in the sand while the boys chose to chase the waves. Graham absolutely loved following Hunter everywhere and gave me a few scares because he was so fearless! On Saturday, my dad flew into Norfolk and on Sunday, we said goodbye to daddy and headed home (it was nice to have Grandad do most of the driving!!). There were no tears from the children until bedtime. Mom, dad, and I had just sat down to dinner when Courtney came to the kitchen sobbing uncontrollably. When I could finally understand her, I made out the words, "I just realized we left someone really important in Virginia". Yes, it took my breath away and broke my heart at the same time. Fortunately, she was able to sit on Grandad's lap until the tears subsided. We miss Chad a lot, but for the most part a peace truly surrounds our house in a way I find hard to describe. Of course, there are crazy moments (how could there not be with 3 kids?!?), but I am constantly reminded of the verse in Philippians 4:7 that says "And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus". I am comforted to know where our sustaining strength is coming from. Thank you for praying for us.

Chad Graduates from Officer Development School!

2009-07-26T16:04:00.000-07:00

On Thursday, July 23rd, I was able to fly to Rhode Island for Chad's graduation from ODS that was held on Friday. It was quite an experience to see so many men and women in uniform, all ready to serve their country. In the span of 24 hours, we shook hands and met two 3-star admirals and had many individuals stop to shake Chad's hand and thank him for his service to our country! He was even called upon to help a lady who was not feeling well on our flight home Friday afternoon and was thanked many times by her and the flight attendants. To say I am proud of him would be putting is mildly! So many amazing things have happened in the last few weeks that despite our separation, we have been able to feel God' presence and the peace He provides when we seek His will. We are blessed to have so many friends and family supporting us. Please continue to keep us in your prayers. While we know this is God's plan for our lives, there are moments that are trying and difficult when we are apart, especially for the children.

Old MacDonald's Farm!

2009-07-19T13:43:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, my parents and I took the kids to Ellington for "Old MacDonald's Farm". The kids (Courtney and Graham) were able to ride donkeys; Hunter was "too big", so he helped lead the donkeys for the other children! They fed "Pooch" (a spotted horse) grass from their hands and brushed the sheep. We watched ladies spin wool into yarn, make soap over an open fire, and took a walk down the forest-like trail. One of Graham's favorite parts was going inside the museum to look at old tractors, toys, and bees making honey. It was a good adventure with perfect seventy degree weather! Today they spent some time with Grandad while mom and I ran errands; they were so good for Grandad that Grandmom treated them to ice cream and cherry pies from McDonald's. I think they have had a great weekend, but they are READY TO SEE THEIR DADDY!

Courtney Loses Another Tooth!

2009-07-16T09:26:00.000-07:00

Courtney pulled another tooth last night! I knew something was up when she began sobbing in the living room. She had pulled the tooth, but then dropped it and lost it in the couch. Her concern, of course, was, "How will the tooth fairy know to come?" Fortunately for me, Chad happened to be on the phone and was able to help Courtney solve the problem! She wrote a sweet note to "Mrs. Toothfairy" and placed that under her pillow. I am happy to report that the toothfairy did come and Courtney is pleased with what she left!

3 Weeks Down!

2009-07-12T13:09:00.000-07:00

Today marks three weeks since Chad left...could time drag any slower? I hope not...we still have a long ways to go on this journey!! Honey, we are missing you terribly.
Last Saturday began a week long battle of fevers, coughing, sneezing, aches and pains for ALL four of us. My sweet mom was on vacation from work to enjoy my nephew, so she took great care of us...including HOMEMADE chicken noodle soup! Although we are still coughing, we did make it out for the first time this week. We went where "A kid can be a kid"...Chuck E. Cheese to eat pizza and play some games before saying goodbye to Caden, my nephew, and my sister. Swim team is over for the summer, so our extracurricular activities are down to jujitsu. I must now turn my focus to preparations for school to begin!

Hi Dad!

2009-06-30T08:23:00.000-07:00

Things are moving along here! Yesterday was swim team, baseball, diving practice and Parent's Day Out! Needless to say, we were exhausted and by 9, everyone (including mom!) was asleep! Today's adventures include a visit from one of our former and favorite babysitters and Jujitsu for Hunter. Tomorrow we are back to swimming and Parent's Day Out. We also have a special lunch planned with Courtney's kindergarten teacher and one of her friends! Should be fun!

Courtney Loses a Tooth!

2009-06-27T18:22:00.001-07:00

Courtney pulled her first TOP tooth today, with the help of Grandmom and a wet paper towel! She has written the tooth fairy a note asking, "How did you get to be the tooth fairy?" It is Courtney's turn to spend the night at Grandmom and Grandad's, so "their" tooth fairy will have to come up with an answer!!!

Graham Finishes Swim Lessons!

2009-06-26T17:41:00.000-07:00

Graham finished his second week of swim lessons yesterday! He showed absolutely no fear in the water and volunteered to go first any time the teachers asked for a helper. He is quite proud of his swimming abilities and his new "noodle" we picked up at Wal-Mart last night; he is hoping to try it at the pool tomorrow. Courtney was awarded a "ladybug" award for swimming great this week on her swim team and Hunter got his baseball trophy Wednesday night! I think we have some athletes in the family!

Chad Calls Home...

2009-06-25T20:28:00.000-07:00

I just received a phone call from Chad! He is doing well, just a bit tired (he reports that he is only getting about four hours/night of sleep). He took his first PT test yesterday (physical training test) and passed his swimming test today. He has met some interesting people, but misses us a lot (would we expect anything else?!?!). He is given 15 minutes to eat each meal, in silence, and sitting at attention. Fortunately for him, the motto of surgery residents was "eat when you can, sleep when you can, and don't mess with the pancreas"! We were able to talk for nearly 40 minutes, which did my heart good. He sounded wonderful and eager to see us in aq few weeks.

2009-06-24T20:05:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, June 23rd, Hunter and Courtney competed in their first swim meet with the Maryland Farms YMCA. Courtney was able to finish the freestyle (25m) and the backstroke (25m) without stopping and hanging onto the rope to rest. This was a huge accomplishment for her since she was not swimming by herself three weeks ago! I am so proud of her!
Hunter finished first in his heat in the freestyle (25m) and the backstroke (25m)! This was very exciting! He also swam in a freestyle relay and a medley relay (breaststroke-25m). Our team won the meet! (Graham hung out indoors with a buddy from preschool, so he had fun, too!)

2009-06-24T19:49:00.000-07:00

On Father's Day, we said goodbye to Chad and put him on a plane. His destination was Newport, Rhode Island for ODS with the United States Navy. He will initially be gone for five weeks after which we should be able to see him for a few days. He does not have access to his cell phone or a computer at this time, so we are unsure of when we will here from him next. I have decided to keep track of what is going on in our world so he has a glimpse into what the kids are doing. I will also use this as a way to track his progress and what is happening with his training in the Navy. Please remember him today; it is the 24th of June, his birthday. (Courtney is very upset that we were not able to be with him. This is hard to explain to a six-years-old daddy's girl!)